A TikToker is asking for help after claiming that her boyfriend is addicted to porn; however, she admits, what she is most concerned about is that he masturbates to photos of Instagram and TikTok influencers. The video uploaded by Shsbahdbn has already garnered over 1 million views with more than 4,500 comments from concerned TikTok users who have experienced a similar situation. One TikTok user commented,
“i used to think this was ok, trust me, after getting in a healthy relationship you realize how wrong it is. you can find so much better.”
The video captioned,
“there’s sm many layers to it I’m j so hurt and idk what to do I don’t want to leave him.”
The TikToker explained through a text on the video that she learned her boyfriend has a porn addiction. She continued to say he has jerked off to Instagram models, as well as TikTok influencers. She admitted that she is understanding when it comes to porn; yet, fantasizing about other women is what confused this TikToker. She said she doesn’t understand why he would put her through this, as this encounter made her feel insecure.
“Just to clarify: i’m being understanding about the addiction. however he lied and crossed a CLEAR boundary i set. i cannot grasp how,”
the TikToker wrote in the comment section. She continued,
“going out of ur way to fantasize about half naked girls on social media is an addiction. that’s disrespect on sm levels.”
According to the Daily Dot, experts have verified that porn addiction is a thing. Webroot confirmed that 200,000 people in the United States have a porn addiction. Experts suggest that loved ones of porn addicts should
“find ways to support themselves.”
Also, it’s common that people who are in relationships with porn addicts question themselves as to if they should remain in the relationship.
#Clique, What are your thoughts?